Friday, November 18, 2011

The Local Church- To go or not to go?

I had a short but great visit with a dear friend of mine on Wednesday. We were discussing a couple of books that have become very popular in the anti-church world. People who once belonged to a local church and are now discouraging others from stepping through the front door. They list problem after problem with the church and they make many good points. In fact, I have very close friends who feel the same way as the authors of these books. Many people have been hurt or they have watched others be hurt. They have seen Pastors fall hard and pull many people away from the right path. They have heard wrong teachings, witnessed raw manipulation, and seen God's Word be shared in a poor theatrical presentation. I have been a part of the local church my entire life. I have witnessed more than any person should and I have been saddened by too much. BUT.................... This is what my friend said on Wednesday. Although she has experienced tough times in church. She has had many great times there as well. She was saved in the local church. She was married in the local church. She was supported by her church family when her first husband passed away. She dedicated her children to God in her local church. She was baptized with the Holy Spirit in the church. Her love for God's Word grew in the local church. She said, "Where would I be in my faith if it weren't for the local church?" Do we have hurts? Yes. Have we been disappointed? You bet ya! But is God still using Pastor's and teachers to spread the Gospel in all the World? Absolutely!! To quote a theme song to an old television show, "You take the good, you take the bad, you take them both and there you have; The Facts of Life." Now this may sound heartless. I honestly and whole heartedly don't mean for it to be. But the fact is, we are all human. Only with God's help can we make a change in this world. Are there some churches you shouldn't go to? Of course there are. But there are men and women who have a love for God and His Word. They are humble in spirit and they love God's people. They preach the Truth and nothing but the Truth. They are held accountable to their peers and to God first and foremost. Will they still make mistakes? Probably. As Bishop TD Jakes once said, "We are lambs leading lambs." The Good Shepherd is our Heavenly Father. He and only He is perfect. But praise God for Grace. It is sufficient for all of us.

So, should you belong to a local body of believers? What is God telling you? And whatever He tells you, don't assume He is telling others the same thing. I personally can't imagine my life past, present or future without the local body. Through all the good and the bad the FACT is I have been abundantly blessed.

7 comments:

  1. Very well said, Heather! Miss you...

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  2. I equate the "church" situation to marriage....just because one or a few of them have been messed up, doesn't mean you throw out the institution of marriage. The same holds true for church; and yes we are the body of Christ, but it's so good to gather together, isn't it? What a blessing to gather together to share worship, the Word, fellowship, and to find and develop a few close friends who hold me and my children accountable. It's hard to find good fellowship outside the church building!!

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  3. Heather this was very well said. I have missed a lot of church this year and I so miss it. Nora is so right you can not find the fellowship outside of church like you can at church. If is was not for my church family this year would have been much harder. Now here is how I explain bad church experiences to people. I ask them if they have ever had a bad experience with food and then I tell them that they have to continue to eat so they need to continue to go to church, not to think every church is the same. Sara

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  4. This was very encouraging Heather. I try and fight my battles all alone, I'd never even thought of doing it this way.

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  5. The comment I made above was supposed to post on the blog about Moses and how people can have more faith for you through your troubles.

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  6. You have probably heard this before but I heard someone say this week that churches are more like hospitals, places for the sick to go not only the healthy. Or as our preacher says often if you won't go to church because of all the hypocrites, come on in one more won't hurt. We all try and we all fail and if that means we shouldn't go to church we are in big trouble. Of course the bigger key is admitting our sin and using God and the Church's help to change that.

    Love reading your blog Heather, missed saying Hi to you and Ty at Kayci's service, thought I might catch you after but was too weepy before it started.

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  7. Thank you so much Nora! I missed saying hi to you as well. We saw you from a distance and never got the chance to come say hi. What an incredible showing of the community. You are truly blessed to belong to such a great town. Hope you have a great holiday season.

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